Welcome Baby to the World!

Posts by Fabiola

More Couples Should Consider Prenuptial Agreements

Posted by on Dec 21, 2018 in Divorce | 0 comments

We all know the story behind the prenuptial agreement. A very rich celebrity couple sign a prenuptial agreement despite claiming they plan to stay together forever. Six months later, they get divorced and somehow, they end up fighting things out in court despite the prenup.

For most of us, this story is full of assumptions about the prenuptial agreement. First, it only applies to the very rich. Second, it’s for flaky people who can’t stay married and never really have an intention to do so. Third, the prenuptial agreement is easily broken and really just leads to more legal headaches. And fourth, the prenup is really just a means of getting attention.

The thing is, all of these assumptions are wrong. The idea that the prenuptial agreement exists solely to help fuel the gossip magazine and reality TV market is ridiculous, when you think about it. The prenup wouldn’t exist if it is was so useless and made life so dramatic for everyone.

It’s time to disabuse ourselves of just what a prenuptial agreement is and what its purpose is. In fact, this agreement can make life a lot easier for many of us, and not just if we’re rich. With such a high percentage of marriages ending in divorce in America, more of us would benefit from the simple, straightforward process a prenuptial agreement allows. To make this a more popular option, though, we need to demystify it and focus more attention on the benefits instead of the negative assumptions.

With that in mind, we need to reestablish, first and foremost, what a prenuptial agreement is. According to Adams Law Firm in Houston, Texas, a prenup is nothing more than “a written agreement drawn up before the marriage. This document can be used to prevent disputes later down the line, should a divorce occur.”

In other words, all a prenuptial agreement does is streamline a potential divorce if it should ever occur. There’s not a word in there about having millions in assets that need protection. So, the first assumption can be done away with. Anyone can have a prenuptial agreement, no matter how much they’re worth. It just avoids future arguments over property and assets.

The above definition also takes care of assumption number 3. Prenuptial agreements aren’t easy to fight. In fact, they almost always lead to a simpler, less expensive, shorter, and less stressful divorce. That obviously makes this a fairly worthwhile thing to consider, since we know about the high divorce rate, meaning this isn’t really about getting attention, it’s just good common sense.

That leaves the second assumption, that only flaky people who expect a divorce draw up a prenuptial agreement. Here’s the thing. We are always told to prepare for the worst-case scenario in every aspect of our lives – except marriage. We should have money saved in case of an accident or in case we suddenly lose our job. We should be prepared for bad luck and misfortune around every corner. Yet, somehow, we’re told not to prepare for that in our own love lives. Why should marriage be any different?

It’s time to move past this prejudice and do the smart thing before we jump into a marriage. It’s time to give the prenup a new reputation, so it can really do its job.

Read More

Easing your Mind When it Comes to Bankruptcy

Posted by on Feb 5, 2018 in Bankruptcy | 0 comments

The worst feeling in the world is when you owe money that you don’t have. Your mind is racing trying to think of ways to make ends meet, pay your bills, and avoid the creditors while still living a healthy life. It’s a mentally draining feeling, that can extend into physical exhaustion when times are hectic, and money is scarce. Bankruptcy can occur for many reasons. Anyone who has faced steep healthcare bills, high mortgage payments, or been displaced from work for a while can find themselves dealing with substantial monetary issues and considering bankruptcy.

I found some reading about bankruptcy law, and what exactly the whole process entails. I know the general stigma of bankruptcy; it’s never a good thing to have on your record, and you can’t loan money from anywhere, which leaves you economically crippled. Many people are scared to find out the details concerning how and when to file for bankruptcy. However, when you find the courage to look into it, you’ll see that bankruptcy is a viable option that can relieve a lot of pressure. 

With an attorney’s help, bankruptcy can be filed for a plethora of reasons. Anyone facing issues with medical bills, regardless of whether or not they have health insurance coverage, can get help from an attorney filing for bankruptcy. Retired and active members of the military can use the advice of an attorney to present their case and file for bankruptcy as well. There are many reasons and avenues by which to file for bankruptcy, all of which can be made more accessible and more transparent with the help of reliable legal counsel.

There are many reasons why someone could file for bankruptcy; it could be for healthcare, credit card, mortgage, or bills. The list is long, and sometimes it can feel like there are multiple commas in the total dollar amount owed. Exploring the option of bankruptcy can give you the feeling of and an actual second chance.

In most cases, those who owe money aren’t irresponsible or bad with money; they’re often just plain unlucky. Those who file for bankruptcy often find themselves working diligently to secure a stable lifestyle for themselves and their families, and to see success at it too. My recommendation is this: keep your mind open, and options will appear, many of which will be astronomically better than you ever thought they would. Many people have changed their lives for the better as soon as they opened their minds up to other possibilities, and their mind, spirit, and family have all thank them for it. With competent legal counsel who cares about you and your loved ones, you can find your second chance.

Read More

Most People Need a Lesson in Boating Safety

Posted by on Oct 24, 2017 in Personal Injury | 0 comments

It was a beautiful Fourth of July day to be out on the lake with friends, in our rented boat, at least that was how it started.  We were just a bunch of dumb 20 something-year-olds, dancing and drinking without a care in the world.  Then, out of nowhere, some dumb teenage kids, racing jet skis, must have decided to try and see if they could, one-by-one, launch themselves and their jet skis over our above average size vessel.  It should not have taken a genius to realize that this was a horrible idea with quite possibly disastrous outcomes in its future.

We, on the boat, did not realize what they about to do, let alone what they had planned to do, until the first brave, yet also stupid, soul tried to launch himself over our boat, but missed and landed in my sister’s lap.  His jet ski slammed into the water and sent a huge wave our way that almost capsized our boat, at least it felt like it would.

Once we realized that this was just the first of four idiots out there with the same plan, and after we got over the shock of a surprisingly not drunk or half-baked teenager landing in our boat, we next tried to wave off, frantically, by the way, the next wave of teenage stupidity.  There is no way in heaven or hell that the next one could have possibly thought that our waves and yelling were signs of encouragement.  But, bless his probably big heart because he did it anyway.  It all happened way too fast, and they’re way too many other boats around, for us to try and move our boat and avoid all of this chicanery.

I don’t know if he forgot to lift the jet ski, or did get as good of a running start as his other friend over here, but this guy never even left the ground.  He plowed right into us, causing a jet ski sized hole to form right in the middle of our boat.

We didn’t really even bother to look to see if he was alive.  That was his friends’ job.  Instead, we, the boating party, scrambled around for the life jackets, which we learned too late were non-existent on this vessel.

While fully acknowledging that we were about to sink, we all jumped overboard.  Fortunately, we can all swim because we’re all not morons and know basic life skills.

Nearby boats help us into their boats, and gave us towels.

The kids that still had their jet skis picked up their friends and scurried away.  Fortunately, other boat owners out here saw what was happening and called the coastguard, who was waiting for them amidst the crown of party boats.

Needless to say, both this set of juveniles and the people who rented us the boat, who did not give us enough life jackets and recommended this particular spot to park our boat, will be hearing from our parents’ very powerful and very expensive attorneys.

Read More

Everything You Need to Know About Hypnosis and Addiction

Posted by on Sep 18, 2017 in Hypnosis | 0 comments

Addiction Explained

Addiction is a compulsive need and use of substances such as alcohol, nicotine, or drugs. When you are addicted to something, your tolerance for that substance or activity (gambling and porn can be characterized as addictive activities) increases and going without that produces definite physiological changes, and this is known as withdrawal.

Addiction can’t be outsmarted. It is not a defect of character, and it is more than a bad habit. At the root of addiction is often a desire to escape physical and/or psychological pain or uncomfortable emotions. As an addict, It is common to think you are alone in your suffering, but approximately 20.6 million people suffer from some form of addiction in the United States.

How does hypnosis get rid of an addiction?

Hypnosis can help individuals get rid of their addiction in a non-intrusive way. AA and 12-step programs, while effective, are not for everyone. Hypnosis may be a preferable alternative for those who are uncomfortable speaking in groups. Hypnosis can also be a powerful supplement to those who are 12-step participants but want to supplement meetings with more than just focusing on abstinence.

Hypnosis addresses the emotional and psychological issues surrounding the addiction. The philosophy behind hypnosis is not just to encourage a person to stop drinking or using drugs, but to address why they use drugs or drink in the first place. Hypnosis gets to the core of the illness rather than just treating the symptoms. Instead of teaching someone they are powerless against their addiction, hypnosis helps people fix their coping mechanisms by solving their underlying issues.

What are benefits/what can you expect from hypnosis addiction therapy?

The hypnotherapy process puts someone into a deeply relaxed state, a place where you are somewhere between being asleep and awake. You are aware of your surroundings, yet unable to direct your focus which opens your unconscious mind consciously. This allows you to receive suggestions more willingly. Hypnotherapy techniques are created to change brain triggers, stop self-sabotage issues, release trauma and redirect the neural networks in the brain. During work with a hypnotherapist, he/she will explain your behavior to you, create a strategy for change, help you change via hypnosis and/or visualization, and then evaluate your progress. Unlike what is portrayed in movies and TV, hypnosis can’t force you to do anything you don’t want to do. Hypnosis is not magic or party trick. It is a respected, scientific process that helps beat addiction.

The experts at the Orlando Hypnosis clinic say that many people find that hypnosis calms the mind, body, and releases stress and anxiety. For those who averse to taking pills, hypnosis can be a helpful alternative for them. Hypnosis is quick, easy, safe, effective. Those who undergo hypnosis experience fewer, less painful withdrawal symptoms. Hypnotherapy is not just about getting you sober but keeping you sober.  It is important to note that while hypnotherapy is effective, it shouldn’t be used as one’s primary therapy. Do not agree to undergo hypnotherapy treatment with anyone who is not a licensed mental health professional.

Read More

Civil suit strikes West Sacramento

Posted by on Aug 29, 2017 in Personal Injury | 0 comments

Kentaro Inoue, a professor at The University of California, Davis, met a cruel death last summer after he was dragged 45 feet by a Waste Management garbage truck. Inoue’s lawyer is now filing a wrongful death lawsuit against Waste Management for damages related to the incident. An article in The West Sacramento News Ledger highlighted the details of Inoue’s gruesome experience.

The professor, a 48-year-old man, was commuting to UC Davis on his bicycle from his home in Sacramento on August 31st, 2016. As reported by the West Sacramento police, Inoue was wearing a helmet and riding in a bike lane as he headed westbound on West Capitol Avenue. Craig Michael Tivey, a driver for Waste Management, was driving a large trash truck in the same area. At the time of the accident, Tivey was at a stop on Poplar Avenue waiting to turn right on red a light. Inoue rode through the intersection and in front of Tivey’s truck just before Tivey turned right onto West Capitol Avenue. At this point, Inoue was in the bike lane directly to the right of the truck and Tivey sped up to pass the bicyclist.

Upon arriving at the El Rancho Mobile Park in West Sacramento, Tivey took a sudden right turn and caused a collision. Inoue crashed into the truck on the right side when the garbage truck abruptly passed in front of his path. After the incident, Tivey told the police “he had heard and felt something” at the time of the accident. However, he assumed he was experiencing engine problems because his truck was in need of repair. A janitor tried to get Tivey’s attention so he would stop his vehicle, but it was too late. Tivey killed Inoue by dragging him 45 feet into the driveway of the mobile park.

Agnew & Brusavich is representing Amy Brown, Inoue’s wife, in a lawsuit against Tivey and Waste Management. They claim Tivey was negligent for mistaking the accident for engine issues. Tivey is also facing vehicular manslaughter charges brought by the Yolo County District Attorney’s Office. He says his truck’s mechanical problems caused his failure to recognize that he hit Inoue. According to Bruce Brusavich, “Waste Management was grossly negligent in the maintenance of its truck, and it cost Kentaro his life. Tivey had written up engine problems, but if they had been promptly resolved, Kentaro might be alive today.” Tivey will face a separate criminal jury trial on September 25, 2017.

The attorneys at Amerio Law Firm hope this lawsuit will hold Waste Management accountable for their gross negligence. When reckless drivers cause accidents, they should be held responsible for the damages they cause. Losing a loved one is a painful experience that is made worse when their death was preventable. We hope this Sacramento personal injury lawsuit offers community awareness and helps to prevent future risk of serious injury or death caused by negligent drivers.

Read More